The Importance of Finding Sexual Pleasure Solo
Since this blog is about finding pleasure, feeling good, self discovery and merriment let us talk openly about masturbation. Not exactly a topic I planned on writing about, but this morning I felt somewhat inspired to do so.
I am far from the first to talk about sexual exploration but sometimes we need more voices out there reminding us that it's okay, it's natural, you wanna orgasm and that's cool!
The body you are currently inhabiting is the body that you will have with you every single day of this life. It was the body you were born into and will eventually transition from. Everything you perceive, do, achieve and feel filters through that body and while you have every right to alter and change the visual aspects of it, the basic foundation remains the same; you are a human being. Giving you every right to feel love and pleasure regardless of your sexual orientation, gender, ethnicity etc.
Getting to know yourself through sexual exploration is a key part of self care and health. Face masks and bubble baths are nice but have you ever dug a little deeper or at least been curious to? Masturbation opens you to an even more wonderful world of this.
Nobody is ever going to know your body like you, so being comfortable and confident in your skin is of the utmost importance. Solo sexual exploration can remove doubts and bring clarity because you've spent the time getting to know how you tick which will in turn heighten intimate experiences with a partner.
Masturbation can be as basic as knowing your favourite and least favourite colours and if you don't know get your hands on a colour wheel and figure it out! Before you can scream 'I love masturbation!' you'll look back thinking about those times you had no idea what really pleasured you and how you managed to survive.
I feel as if all my blogs have ended the same way lately and that is; you're a human being so explore every aspect of being human including sexual pleasure. Life is short and orgasms are far too magical and weird to skimp out on so let this serve as a reminder to get loose, get jiggy, relax and take yourself on an adventure. You deserve it.